Seeing Challenges as Opportunities
Are you a person who loves challenges, or hates them? I must admit I've spent most of my life as a person who
hates them. I always thought of challenges as frustrating, maddening obstacles keeping me from where I want to be.
I even used to take them personally, feeling like the universe must hate me and like to see me struggle. ;-)
As I grow older and (hopefully) wiser - I find my competitive nature rising up to meet these challenges, and I'm
learning to see them differently. Most of us know that great rewards require great sacrifice and effort. You know
the old saying that nothing worthwhile comes easy? In a sense that's true. If everything we wanted was handed to
us, we probably wouldn't have alot of appreciation for it. On the other hand, when we work hard for something and
then see it manifest before our eyes, we get such a powerful sense of pride and accomplishment. We can point to it
and say, "I did that. It was tough, but I did it anyway."
Challenges are truly opportunities. Opportunities to grow and learn, to strengthen ourselves, to test
ourselves and our faith. They reveal how badly we want to create the dreams in our hearts, and how hard we're
willing to work for them. This is such a blessing. It may not seem that way at first, but with a tiny shift in
attitude, we can see that we have been handed an incredible opportunity.
The next time life hands you a challenge, stop and consider for a moment what it means. Is the universe saying
"no", or "I want you to try harder?" Don't look at challenges as an end, look at them as a door leading to your
heart's desires. That door might be locked, but you have the key. Maybe you forgot where you put the key, or you
forgot that you even had it to begin with. It might take some effort and patience to find it again - or you might
even have to create a new one, but believe that you will, even if you're not sure how yet.
I'm learning that it's not important to have all the answers right now. When challenges rise up before us, we
may not know how to get around them, or through them. It might seem hopeless at first. Challenges can seem so
overwhelming when we don't have a solution. However, life itself is very much like this too. Sometimes life is akin
to bumping around in a dark room, trying to find the light switch. It is possible to get through the room without
finding the light switch immediately, we just need to step slowly and carefully. Moment to moment, we find our
Rather than giving up when obstacles appear in your path, look at them as welcome challenges. The biggest
challenge is choosing your own attitude. Will you get flustered and angry, or will you get excited and determined?
Will you lay down and cry, or will you roll up your sleeves and get to work? Some of us take on a victim mentality
when obstacles arise, and I can see why this happens. It does feel like the universe is picking on us, doesn't it?
:-) I think we've all been there!
Why not change your mindset and think of obstacles as a personal challenge? Rather than feeling like the
universe is picking on you, challenge yourself to figure out a solution. Say to yourself, "Okay, such and such has
happened, now what am I going to do about it"? Put your problem-solving skills to work.
Once we begin to change our attitude about obstacles and challenges, they can actually become fun. Our
competitive human nature rises up and gets ready to win, no matter what. We develop a steely determination to not
In fact, I like to pretend there is a great critic in the sky who laughs mockingly at me and says, "You can't do
that." I simply grin wickedly, roll up my sleeves and say, "Watch me!"
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